Reading for Awareness
What is Emotional
Intelligence? (And Why You
Should Care)
Here is a definition of Emotional
Intelligence by three psychologists:
We define EI as the capacity
to reason about emotions, and of emotions to enhance thinking. It includes the
abilities to accurately perceive emotions, to access and generate emotions so
as to assist thought, to understand emotions and emotional knowledge, and to
reflectively regulate emotions so as to promote emotional and intellectual growth.[i]
Here
is another definition by the same team:
Emotional Intelligence refers
to an ability to recognize the meanings of emotion and their relationships, and
to reason and problem-solve on the basis of them. Emotional Intelligence is
involved in the capacity to perceive emotions, assimilate emotion-related
feelings, understand the information of those emotions, and manage them.[ii]
According to these two definitions, Emotional
Intelligence involves an interplay of cognition and emotion. EI involves a
beneficial interaction of thinking and feeling. That interaction helps its
possessor gain greater self-awareness. The best stripped-down definition of Emotional
Intelligence is:
EI = the beneficial interplay of cognition
and emotion.
Yet many streams of ancient philosophy and
wisdom writing, from the East as well as the West, have viewed the emotions in
a negative light, maintaining that they are distracting, and as such, should be
separated from cognition. In his commentary on the Brahmasūtras, Hindu sage Śaṃkara makes it clear that the emotions present the main obstacle to the
realization of the true self (ātman).
Here we see a wide divergence between
philosophy and literature. For contemplatives from the Stoics in the West to
Classical Indian philosophers Gautama,
Śamkara and Patañjali, to the
Buddhist sages, have regarded the emotions as disturbing, even dangerous. Yet
these same emotions are the stuff of which literature is made. Drama enacts the
emotions, lyric poetry describes them, and the novel uses them to portray
character. Watching a play, reading literature, learning poems “by heart” – all
involve the interaction of emotion and cognition. Yes, the definition of EI.
Daniel Goleman popularized
the term “Emotional Intelligence,” which he used to describe notable results of
psychological research on measurable emotional aptitudes. Psychometric testing in
the 1990s established that Emotional Intelligence satisfied traditional standards
for an intelligence. However, the concepts underlying the newly enshrined
intelligence – concepts like self-awareness, self-cultivation, and self-mastery
– pre-dated psychologists’ recognition of EI by thousands of years.
Today, Emotional Intelligence is a topic of
academic study; it is taught in colleges and in corporate seminars. At Google,
the common space occupied by the tenets of Emotional Intelligence and the Buddhist
practice of mindfulness is the basis of a corporate leadership course taught by
Chade-Meng Tan, meditation leader
and author of Search Inside Yourself.
Outside of EI training and meditation, are
there other effective ways of reasoning about and understanding the emotions?
Beyond the various curricula for teaching Emotional
Intelligence, are there other cultural avenues leading to better self-understanding?
What about literature? Can one gain
greater self-awareness, not necessarily from a formal study of literature, but
simply by reading it?
Why
Should I Care?
Improving your EI might make you better at
your job. It might make you more money. It might make you into a leader. Most
people only need one reason though. Improving your Emotional Intelligence will
make you happier.
Can we
gain greater self-awareness, not necessarily from a formal study of literature,
but simply from reading good books?
From the beginning of recorded history,
philosophy has given the emotions a bad rap. In the Yogasutras, Patañjali
emphasizes the importance of clearing the mind of all disturbing influences,
including the emotions. The sage lists some of the afflictions (kleśas)
that disturb the mind: ignorance, egotism, aversion, attachment.
While some of the listed afflictions may sound
abstract, attachment and aversion comprise the more recognizable emotions love
and hate: perhaps the two most familiar emotions. These feeling categories have
a specific role within Patañjali’s system as they do within other systems of
Classical Indian Philosophy. Attachment, in particular, is regarded as an
obstacle to enlightenment as it binds the subject to the material world.
Like attachment and aversion, afflictions
such as ignorance (avidyā) and
egotism (asmitā) may be cleared from
the mind by following Patañjali’s exercises (temporarily cleared, one presumes:
the exercises must be repeated). But perhaps the goal of detachment can be
achieved in other ways.
This leads to the question: is there a role
here for analysis? [Granted that the goal is not necessarily to follow Patañjali’s
philosophy, but to follow it insofar as one is in agreement, it is not
difficult to be persuaded that ignorance and egotism cloud the mind.]
But how best to detach oneself/ one’s mind,
from these afflictions? In the case of egotism especially, because it leads to
so many errors of perception, it seems plausible that analysis may play an
important role. How best to achieve an analysis of ignorance and egotism? Are we
all to become philosophers? (Unlikely.) Shall we subject our egos to analysis
on the psychoanalyst’s couch? (Impracticable.)
Fortunately, there is another possibility.
Read literature. For the afflictions on Patañjali’s
list, as on the lists of many a classical philosopher, are those humors, or
vices that are the targets of satire, from Aristophanes
to Molière to Oscar Wilde. Whether they are called afflictions or vices or sins,
these scourges of humankind are all given emotional expression. Aristophanes
skewered the vices of his countrymen, from academicians to war profiteers. Molière
wrote entire plays dramatizing vices like greed (The Miser) and misanthropy (The
Misanthrope). And Wilde demonstrated the illusory faces of love and
reputation in The Importance of Being Earnest,
Lady Windermere’s Fan, and An Ideal
Husband. If you have the chance, see the play – that is as good if not better
than reading it. Beyond the great satirical plays, there are satirical novels:
the rapier wit of Evelyn Waugh, the
scathing, and contemporary, What a
Carve-Up! by Jonathan Coe.
Analysis doesn’t have to be forensic to be
effective, though, especially if the goal is to achieve a certain degree of
mental distance from the vices that afflict us. Gentler than satire but just as
perspicacious are novels of comic realism.
Sāmkhya-Yoga distinguishes between truthful
and non-truthful cognition (vijñāna).
Non-truthful cognition – thinking that
doesn’t accord with reality – is classified as ignorance. Ignorance is seen as
the root of all afflictions.
How best to understand this blending of
cognitive error with affliction – the view that all afflictions are due to
false knowledge? (Patañjali, the Yogasūtras.)
Ask
Emma.
Jane Austen’s Emma, the main character
of the novel of that name, may be benighted, but her steep learning curve
towards the end of the story becomes our steep learning curve, and is happily
mastered. For Emma, a character with whom we easily identify, is intelligent
and humble enough to learn from her missteps. Her insight, then, becomes our
insight.
Beset
by the distorting influence of her own egotism, and by an ignorance of others’
intentions, Emma has misdirected her stratagems and her affections. (I will try
not to spoil so great a novel as Emma
by belaboring any parallels between Emma’s afflictions and those enumerated by
the Sāmkhya-Yoga philosophers.) At the point in the story when Emma’s
cumulative errors have built to a crisis, the author’s disapproval of her
heroine is synonymous with the disapprobation that Emma directs towards
herself:
With
insufferable vanity had she believed herself in the secret of everybody’s
feelings; with unpardonable arrogance proposed to arrange everybody’s destiny.
She was proved to have been universally mistaken: and she had not quite done
nothing, for she had done mischief. (Emma, Penguin
1966, p 402)
With
these ringing words Austen presents us with a summary of the effects of vanity
and arrogance on judgment. As the sage said, “All afflictions are due to false
knowledge (avidyā), and can be
destroyed by right knowledge.” (Sinha, J. 1985, Indian Psychology, vol. 2, Emotion
and Will, Delhi: Motilal Banarsidass.) So far we can agree.
The
destruction of affliction, or preferably the correction of error in Emma and in
the reader, is however, please note! an emotional experience. If Austen calls
Emma’s beliefs and intentions “insufferable” and “unpardonable,” we can be
pretty sure that Emma is feeling chastened and chagrined. And we feel for Emma.
But not too much. For Austen’s comedy of manners provides just the right degree
of detachment, allowing our amusement at Emma’s folly at the same time that we
sympathize.
Brilliant! But Jane Austen isn’t everyone’s
cup of tea. Is reading literature, then, a mainstream means of gaining
Emotional Intelligence?
How Basic
is the Link between Emotions and Narrative?
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[i]
John D. Mayer, Peter Salovey, David R. Caruso ‘Emotional Intelligence: Theory,
Findings, and Implications’ Psychological
Inquiry 2004 vol. 15 no. 3 pp. 197-215.
[ii]
John D. Mayer, Peter Salovey, David R. Caruso ‘Emotional Intelligence Meets
Traditional Standards for an Intelligence’ Intelligence
27 (4), 2000 pp. 267-298.
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